I’m bi but when theres an upskirt of a man character i whoop and cheer and when theres an upskirt of a woman character I stand stock still as stone scowling arms crossed like I’m Blade at that vampire club
“Obviously, there is also outright torture, people who are actually being shot, beaten, tortured, or violently abused. But I’m speaking here even of the ones that aren’t. For most, it’s as if the very texture of everyday life has been designed to be intolerable—only, in a way that you can never quite say is exactly a human rights violation. There’s never enough water. Showering requires almost military discipline. You can’t get a permit. You’re always standing in line. If something breaks it’s impossible to get permission to fix it. Or else you can’t get spare parts. There are four different bodies of law that might apply to any legal situation (Ottoman, British, Jordanian, Israeli), it’s anyone’s guess which court will say what applies where, or what document is required, or acceptable. Most rules are not even supposed to make sense. It can take eight hours to drive 20 kilometers to see your girlfriend, and doing so will almost certainly mean having machine guns waved in your faces and being shouted at in a language you half understand by people who think you’re subhuman. So you do most of your dalliance by phone. When you can afford the minutes. There are endless traffic jams before and after checkpoints and drivers bicker and curse and try not to take it out on one another. Everyone lives no more than 12 or 15 miles from the Mediterranean but even on the hottest day, it’s absolutely impossible to get to the beach. Unless you climb the wall, there are places you can do that; but then you can expect to be hunted every moment by security patrols. Of course teenagers do it anyway. But it means swimming is always accompanied by the fear of being shot. If you’re a trader, or a laborer, or a driver, or a tobacco farmer, or clerk, the very process of subsistence is continual stream of minor humiliations. Your tomatoes are held and left two days to rot while someone grins at you. You have to beg to get your child out of detention. And if you do go to beseech the guards, those same guards might arbitrarily decide to hold you to pressure him to confess to rock-throwing, and suddenly you are in a concrete cell without cigarettes. Your toilet backs up. And you realize: you’re going to have to live like this forever. There is no “political process.” It will never end. Barring some kind of divine intervention, you can expect to be facing exactly this sort of terror and absurdity for the rest of your natural life.”
—David Graeber, Hostile Intelligence: Reflections from a Visit to the West Bank
also the reason that you as an annoying transmisogynist only ever see “whipping girl”mentioned positively is because it’s easily digestible and does a good job of exposing people to surface level concepts. it’s a good litmus test to see if others can engage with the topic in a meaningful way.
if you think trans women treat it like a bible then it is likely because you have proven yourself to be someone who is worthless/unsafe to talk to about the subject with. personally the angel has spent a lot of time with other tma people discussing the flaws in “whipping girl”, and subsequently engaging with other texts.
it’s a book that deserves a great deal of criticism for the author’s complete refusal to discuss race in any way, the the author’s bias to favoring biology, etc. but if your critique of “whipping girl” is that it doesn’t talk enough about boys… why would anyone find you worthwhile to engage in discussion with?
Weak, foolish: Lapis Lazuli is unsympathetic because uhhh if I went through all that I would simply have a healthy trauma response
Rational, wise: Lapis Lazuli is unsympathetic because if 6'6’’ roided out masochistic tgirl with mommy issues and an S-tier eyeliner game got down on her knees and told me she was addicted to my cock I would grab her throat and never let go
anti drm for sure but pro digital media always and forever you’re never gonna convince me that having as many books as i want on a device small enough to hold in one hand where i can adjust the text size, font, and contrast at will is somehow a downgrade from anything. there’s nothing inherently better about physical media it’s entirely a matter of preference.
